Guest Opinion: Choosing the road less traveled

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BY AMY NEBONS | Owner, Blink Events LLC

 

My name is Amy and I chose the road less traveled.

 

I’m a dreamer, a gal with a million ideas.  I’m an over-calculating, over-thinking, over-analyzing prisoner of my own mind.  The perfect concoction of crazy.  Feeling misunderstood in the cubical farm that was my daily life, it was New Year’s Day 2014 that I decided to take my destiny into my own hands.

 

I went rogue.

 

How did this begin?  As a young gal on a perpetual search to find myself, I realized I was in a place in my life where I was not happy. Not being the type to wallow in my own sadness, I needed to get to the root of the problem.  That problem was work, the four-letter word uttered with a grumbling grimace.  “They don’t call it work for nothing…” I never understood that phrase but somehow I was conditioned to accept it.

 

Something inside me was desperately trying to get out.  Indignantly, I declared I was done!  I was done sitting at a desk from 9-to-5. It was time for me to stop dreaming and start doing.  

 

As a transplant from Boston, I had no idea what to expect when I moved here in 2012.  I was blown away by the interesting and innovative people.  It didn’t take long to discover Des Moines was on the tipping point, creating tons of opportunity for entrepreneurs and a perfect time to start a small business.  That’s how Blink Events was born.  I wanted to build a company where we innovated the events world by utilizing new concepts and cool technologies — and I was going to do it.

 

With that decision to start a business came beautiful clarity.  The sky appeared bluer and the lush spring grass greener than ever.

 

Sheer excitement mixed with terror and fear.  As a girl who meticulously strategized each life move, this decision was out of my comfort zone.  Fear of failure was the number one concern.  Fear that I wasn’t smart enough, that others were better than me — or the question of where was I even supposed to start!

 

But I remembered a shirt I saw someone wearing as I reached mile 26 of the 2012 Boston Marathon. It said, “all you can give, is everything you’ve got.”

 

That mantra propelled me forward, to the finish line I thought I’d never see, and it would push me into building my own business.  Each day I move one step closer to my dream and I realize I am capable of things I never thought possible.

 

My hope in contributing to Lift IOWA is to share the struggles and victories of being a 30-something woman starting a small business in Iowa.  I want to share my journey in the hope that I can inspire other young women to believe in themselves and follow their dreams.  I want to prove that if I can do it, anyone can. 

 

Amy Nebons, originally from the East Coast, moved to Iowa in 2012 with her husband and two mini-schnauzers. Now a mother to a baby girl, she received her bachelor’s degree in theater production from Providence College in Rhode Island and her master’s degree in interior design from The Boston Architectural College in Massachusetts. She currently owns event management company Blink Events LLC, based in Des Moines.

 

CONNECTION POINTS

Connect with Amy on LinkedIn or by phone at 617-840-5073. She also can be reached by email. Learn more about her company at www.blinkevents.net.