It never ceases to amaze me how many people still ask me, “What’s the best way to close a sale?”

Other than cold calling and finding the pain, this is one of the biggest misconceptions in sales. It’s not a technique. It’s not a manipulation. It’s not something that you wait until the end of your presentation to do. It’s not something that requires impeccable timing. You don’t have to be afraid of being rejected.

What you have to do is have an intelligent and engaging conversation with someone who is looking to buy you and your product or service – a conversation that involves value, a win for them, a visualized outcome and an understanding that the sale is made emotionally and then justified logically.

That’s a far cry from “closing.”

MAJOR AHA! If the sale doesn’t start right, it will never end right.

“Close the sale” is the wrong thought process. The prospective customer is making his or her decision AS the sales call progresses.

If you’re really wanting to complete the sale – also known as “getting the order” or “creating an atmosphere in which the customer will buy” – there are questions you must answer for yourself in order to increase the chances the sale can be yours.

CAUTION: When you ask yourself these questions, and your own answers come up short of mastery, it’s an indication of why you lose sales. The better you can answer each one, the more likely you are to make the sale.

Think about your last 10 sales calls, and ask yourself:
• How prepared were you in terms of the customers?
• How ready were you to make a sale?
• How friendly were you?
• How enthusiastic were you?
• How emotionally engaging were you?
• How intellectually engaging were you?
• How self-confident were you?
• How relatable were you?
• How compelling was your presentation?
• How different were you perceived to be?
• How valuable were you perceived to be?
• How believable were you?
• How trustworthy were you perceived to be?

Close the sale? No! It’s not an action. It’s a culmination and sum total of the elements that make a favorable decision possible.

The close of a sale is a delicate balance between your words and deeds, and the customers’ thoughts and perceptions. And a sale is ALWAYS made; either you sell them on yes, or they sell you on no.

SECRET: You give me a prepared, friendly, enthusiastic, emotionally engaging, intellectually engaging, unique, valuable, compelling, believable, self-confident, relatable, trustworthy salesperson … and I’LL GIVE YOU A SALE! No close needed.

There has been more written about closing the sale than about any other aspect of the selling process or the sales cycle. Most of it is manipulative rubbish. Most of it centers on your ability to push the prospects into a corner and make them feel pressured to make a decision. That pressure will often result in a no, or some kind of stall that will ultimately result in a no.

I’ve just given you an accurate dose of just who is responsible for making a sale, and how it should be completed.

NOTE WELL: By using this approach to selling, you have just eliminated all of the silly objections and stalls. 

THE KEY: Be comfortable with yourself. If you’re in a selling situation and you aren’t feeling the love, or feeling the comfort, or feeling the relationship, or feeling the mutual communication, then the best thing to do is back off, and be truthful. Truth will win you more sales than manipulation. All you have to do to change and improve your outcome is change your mindset from “close” to “earn.”