I like coffee. Dark, black coffee. Espresso. No cream. No sugar. Just dark, black coffee. You?

But I look at coffee differently than you do. I don’t “wake up and drink it.” I venture out to a coffeehouse and an early-morning meeting, and oh, by the way, I have coffee.

My goal each day is to have a cup of coffee with someone who can help me enhance relationships, make connections, build value and make sales. As a traveler, I can’t do this every day. But I try my best to do it as often as I can.

A meeting is a brand-new way to look at the value of a cup of coffee. You may look at coffee as a cost or an expense. To me, coffee is an investment of time. It’s not “how I drink it.” Rather, it’s “whom I drink it with.”

KEY POINT OF UNDERSTANDING: Whenever I meet someone for coffee in the morning, I find the meeting is relaxed and fun. It’s a genuine exchange of information. Always informal and humorous. And it’s usually with someone I do business with or could do business with.

I try to have these meetings early. Very early. Between 7 and 8 in the morning. Sometimes I have two breakfasts. One at 7 and one at 8. 

Often my appointments meet each other, so it becomes an additional networking opportunity. Many of my customers, prospects and connections have done business with my other customers, prospects and connections.

PERSONAL NOTE: When I’m done my with coffee and my meeting is over, I get back home as fast as I can so I can take our young daughter to school by 9. And no, I can’t do it every day, but that is the goal every day.

Think about the impact of that. A sales call BEFORE the day starts. 

If you have one cup of coffee a day with a customer or prospect, that’s equal to 250 sales calls THIS YEAR that will be relaxed, build relationships, make sales, gain referrals and create business opportunities. Coffee and sales – not just coffee. 

What could you do with an additional 250 meetings, appointments or actual sales calls? 

“But Jeffrey,” you whine, “my customers are scattered all over the country.” 

QUIT WHINING AND START THINKING: Drink coffee at your desk with a connection via Skype or vsee.com. Send Starbucks gift cards via aceofsales.com. It’s so unusual that customers will set the meeting, and then talk about how innovative it was.  

“But Jeffrey,” you whine, “what do I talk about during the meeting?” 


Talk family; talk kids; talk hobbies; talk sports; talk vacation; talk travel; talk fashion; talk books; talk movies; talk culture; talk passion; talk ideas; talk social media.

Ask questions that allow you to ask more questions. NO NEWS, NO WEATHER, NO POLITICS, NO RELIGION or anything negative about people or things. 

“But Jeffrey,” you whine, “what tone should I set inside the meeting?” 


Talk positive; talk truth; talk relaxed; talk about things in common; talk humor.

“But Jeffrey,” you whine, “what sales tools should I bring?”


Bring a referral; bring a book; bring an idea; bring an influential friend; bring your Instagram on an iPad.


Take notes; take a photograph; ask for his or her favorite – quotation, book, movie, team, player; make another appointment at the end of the meeting. 

“But Jeffrey,” you whine, “when do I start talking business?” 

When the customer brings it up. Talk business when THEY START.