Guest Opinion: Choosing the road less traveled
BY AMY NEBONS | Owner, Blink Events LLC
My name is Amy and I chose the road less traveled.
I’m a dreamer, a gal with a million ideas. I’m an over-calculating, over-thinking, over-analyzing prisoner of my own mind. The perfect concoction of crazy. Feeling misunderstood in the cubical farm that was my daily life, it was New Year’s Day 2014 that I decided to take my destiny into my own hands.
I went rogue.
How did this begin? As a young gal on a perpetual search to find myself, I realized I was in a place in my life where I was not happy. Not being the type to wallow in my own sadness, I needed to get to the root of the problem. That problem was work, the four-letter word uttered with a grumbling grimace. “They don’t call it work for nothing…” I never understood that phrase but somehow I was conditioned to accept it.
Something inside me was desperately trying to get out. Indignantly, I declared I was done! I was done sitting at a desk from 9-to-5. It was time for me to stop dreaming and start doing.
As a transplant from Boston, I had no idea what to expect when I moved here in 2012. I was blown away by the interesting and innovative people. It didn’t take long to discover Des Moines was on the tipping point, creating tons of opportunity for entrepreneurs and a perfect time to start a small business. That’s how Blink Events was born. I wanted to build a company where we innovated the events world by utilizing new concepts and cool technologies — and I was going to do it.
With that decision to start a business came beautiful clarity. The sky appeared bluer and the lush spring grass greener than ever.
Sheer excitement mixed with terror and fear. As a girl who meticulously strategized each life move, this decision was out of my comfort zone. Fear of failure was the number one concern. Fear that I wasn’t smart enough, that others were better than me — or the question of where was I even supposed to start!
But I remembered a shirt I saw someone wearing as I reached mile 26 of the 2012 Boston Marathon. It said, “all you can give, is everything you’ve got.”
That mantra propelled me forward, to the finish line I thought I’d never see, and it would push me into building my own business. Each day I move one step closer to my dream and I realize I am capable of things I never thought possible.
My hope in contributing to Lift IOWA is to share the struggles and victories of being a 30-something woman starting a small business in Iowa. I want to share my journey in the hope that I can inspire other young women to believe in themselves and follow their dreams. I want to prove that if I can do it, anyone can.
CONNECTION POINTS
Connect with Amy on LinkedIn or by phone at 617-840-5073. She also can be reached by email. Learn more about her company at www.blinkevents.net.